Student life is something which teaches us so much about
life and makes us fully prepared to function ourselves as a stable individual
in life. Most of us have a lot to share about our school life regarding our
friends, teachers, studies or schools which are the life-long memories
entrapped within us. I too have lots of such things to share which I have
experienced. Teachers are the bridge between us and the education. It’s very
important that teachers are present in the class which glues us to the studies.
I had a teacher in my high school, Ms Tshering
Lhamo. She taught me computer applications for two years (classes IX and
X). She is a teacher in the school who had given me so much during my school
days beyond the usual school education. Being a hard working student, it’s very
important that our teacher sees our input in order to appreciate and encourage
us to go higher in life. Miss Tshering
has done this for me though she was not the in charge. I shared a classroom
where most of the brilliant students were grouped in together and so it was very
important for us to give our best in whatever we do but we get a different pushing
force when a teacher supports and motivates us. Miss Tshering didn’t support me only, she was supportive to all the
hardworking students in the school and she was loved a lot.
She is an amazing teacher and it is evident from her
teaching style only. She would be teaching in loud and audible voice (even if
she is sick, her voice will never fail in doing its work to reach every student
of the class). She would give us assignments and always make sure that our
works are done on time. If a student in the class was lacking behind, she would
spare some time on him or her so that the student is learning and making an
equal progress with the rest of the students. She is mindful of student’s
punctuality and sincerity. She would not mind in scolding students if we did
something which is not expected. Whole of the class did the unit test very
horrible in class IX which made her furious and she scolded the whole class
showing her frustrations and disappointment. She would ensure that we had
enough practice done for our practical examination and provide us as much help
and guidance as possible from her side.
I was in class X when she selected me and a boy from my
class to represent our school for the regional IT quiz competition (six schools
participated from Paro and Haa Dzongkhags)
to celebrate the World Telecommunication
Day on 17th May 2009 with the theme “Protecting children in Cyberspace”.
At first I was bit reluctant as I had not much idea about the theme. All I had
in store was the basic contents of computer application I studied in IT subject
(as part of the curriculum in the class) and there was not much knowledge in me
about the telecommunication and that entire cyberspace thing. I was hesitant to
represent my school but what made me feel safe was that the trust she portrayed
in me. Her encouragement gave me the hope that I may be able to do it though I
was very much unsure myself. When the day finally came, I remember Miss Tshering meeting me before the quiz
started and told me, “If they ask you who created Microsoft application, say
it’s Bill Gates. And all the best” She then padded on my shoulders. Those days,
though I had finished studying Microsoft word and excel, I hardly knew that
Bill Gates founded the Microsoft Corporation until Miss Tshering told me that day.
As the quiz competition started, we were introduced to
various theme rounds. It wasn’t as I expected because apart from information
and communication round, quiz masters brought in other rounds like cultural
round, history round, environment round and games and sports round too. The
competition started and I and my friend did a good job by answering most of the
questions correctly and maintaining a good score at the end of every round.
Most of our answers nailed the questions and we even managed to answer few
questions passed on by other teams, earning us some extra points…hurray. Due to this our school was leading in all the
rounds and the rapid round (In this round, we were asked as much questions as
possible in one minute) raced us farther from the other teams. In the
information and telecommunication round, the question was thrown on the founder
of Microsoft Corporation but unfortunately the question was given to Drugyel School which they answered
correctly. I looked at Miss Tshering
immediately and we exchanged smiles. That day seemed amazingly lucky for us as
I had participated in quiz competition before also but it never happened that I
produced such great scores. It all was due to the blessing from the Buddha and the
trust of our teachers and the whole school. I was happy as we came far ahead of
other teams and grabbed hold of the first position immediately. Drugyel High School was second but there
was a huge score difference between us and them. Both I and my friend were
awarded a Nokia mobile phone each and a certificate from the Ministry of
Information and Communication. It felt great as our names were announced by the
school principal in the next morning assembly congratulating and appreciating
us for our victory. The achievement was mainly possible due to the trust and
encouragement showed in me by my beloved Miss Tshering. It was never enough to thank her.
There are numerous times when I visited her place and stayed
with her. She would be very much frank and I hardly felt she was my teacher
though I respected her. She likes spicy food a lot and I can remember clearly where
she will be cooking hot emadatsi and
another chilli eazy separately. She
would be eating around two kilograms of chillies every week. I was free and
comfortable with her and I shared lots of my fears, worries and dreams I had
then as an aspiring school student. She has been very much supportive
throughout the academic session.
There was a time when I was hospitalized where she came to
see me in the hospital and I was very much touched to see her bring me boiled
milk. Such memories never fade away and it always makes me feel good and bring
smile on my face. Though she didn’t teach me after class X, she was still very
much supportive and frequently inquired about my studies. She had supported me
financially knowing my broke condition all of the
time. She used to tell me frequently, "Tashi, I am going to town. Tell me if you need anything?" I cannot forget those memories ever.
Soon, I got the news that she would be leaving for the
Netherlands for her masters studies within few months. It was a good thing that
she was going for her studies and sad too as we would be departing for some
time. She assured me that I need not worry as Mam Kuenga, her closest friend would help me and if I faced any problem,
I can openly tell her anytime. Mam Kuenga
was my sister’s teacher and she had been also too much supportive to both me
and my sister. I knew that Mam Kuenga
would show me her best part. She was no less than Miss Tshering who helped me a lot with any sort of problems I had during
the rest of my stay in the school. She provided me supports (financially and
emotionally) and she would check on me after my examination. I still remember
going to her with a very stupid problem I faced for some time and she took my
problem seriously and helped me a lot. She was busy sparing her precious time
on me, making calls to her known friends to clear (get some info) things on my
issue and most importantly, telling me time and again, “Don’t worry Tashi. It will be alright” I know if it
was any other person in her place, they wouldn’t have done what she did because
I have realized that the problem was very much silly and stupid. I myself would
have surely ignored if I was in her place. But she didn’t and those moments
seem very much special as and when I recall and relive it every time because
it’s worth cherishing.
Mam Kuenga with her husband |
Heavy studies in class XII with great pressure of my exams
were a stressful situation on me and it was not too soon when I found myself
next to Mam Kuenga seeking her
guidance and help. She provided me great tips for a smart study which made my
mind calm down into peace. Mam Kuenga
was the career counselor of our school and all the students in my school would
agree with me on this note that when she provided counseling to the students,
it would be a great wonder the way she would stir up our mind with positive
thoughts. All her words would be true and we would get a real feeling of our
complete senses motivating us to be better in our lives, do well and think
positive. She was ultimately a source of strong positive energy in our school
as everybody coming out after her counseling had a mind-set done to accomplish
something and make positive changes in their lives.
Miss Tshering and Mam Kuenga They are the besties |
I am not saying that I was a special or best student to them
but they always made me feel special with such heart-touching gestures they
showed on a student like me. Mam Kuenga
and Miss Tshering were the first
persons to whom I shared the news that I got the scholarship after my class XII
because I felt they truly deserved to know that. I do consider myself as lucky
to have met teachers like them as now in the college, life isn’t the same and
sometimes I miss them. But this is how things should go as I always cannot
expect their support. My school life has been amazing; especially my high
school where teachers like them had been more than just teachers’ specifically
marking my School life as Golden Life. Rightly said that teachers are our
second parent because they taught me how we should lead a humble life. Of
course my parents too were supportive and caring but there was something
lacking when it came to the understanding part mainly due to the generation gap
and Mam Kuenga and Miss Tshering had covered up that loophole,
showering me a complete package of affection and support altogether which was
very much required for a budding individual. I know my life would have been
something different if these two angels were not there in my life. My heart is
full of their greatness and not only them, there are other teachers too who had
great genuine concern and care for me. Teachers are great and I have witnessed
the greatness in them.
Wow, lucky you Tashi to be guided by two wonderful persons in your school's life! Maybe they were your parents from your previous life or Guru. I'm happy for you and that's what made you today. Yeah, sometimes I forgot that only the hardworking and intelligent students that managed to study outside Bhutan as sponsored by the government and you are one of them :)
ReplyDeleteI hope your friendship with them last forever! Take care and have a safe journey back Tashi! :)
I have been very lucky indeed to have them in my life. I can never forget them. I too consider to have a good karmic connection with them.
DeleteThank you and I am home safely. Have a great week!